In spite of what you might read in up-lifting memes and blogs, Happiness is not always just a thought away. Happiness and sadness are reactions. Some of us have a lot of trouble accessing Happiness moment to moment.
Gratitude, though, is a choice. It is an option in how we choose to react to the world, and it changes how the world feels. It might be hard to choose happiness, but choosing gratitude first can make it easier.
Dr. Brené Brown points out that people who cultivate gratitude, instead, are more likely to allow themselves to be joyous and live that moment to its fullest. Choosing to react with gratitude changes how you process the event, and how much you let yourself enjoy it.
Gratitude, then, is a decision to take the most, the best, of situations in your life. When you make that choice, you get to see the best first and put the focus there. It doesn’t mean ignoring that bad things can happen. Instead it is about putting them in perspective and not letting worry steal the moment. It is about being mindful that the joyous moment won’t last and being in the moment while you can. It is about being thankful to people but also to whatever spark began the chain of events that is your life, and about knowing that the natural odds were against you… any of us… having lives at all much less the capacity to enjoy them. Your very life, and all that happens in it, is an improbable blessing!
And seeing those blessings makes it easier to be your best, to give your best, in the community. Gratitude can power your activism, your spiritual practice, and your charity. That helps others have more to be grateful for, too! Maybe we can create a cycle that makes the whole world a little better.
So, it seems to me like we could all benefit from building a habit of gratitude. It won’t happen all at once, but there is no deadline after which you have to give up. Every day that you wake up, you can choose to keep working on being in those moments, big or small, and being glad for them while they last.
Our mission is to make Unitarian Universalism easier to understand and share with the world. Liberal religion has a vital place in making the world more just and compassionate. The more people who know about our Principles and goals, the better for the world. If you believe we do a good job representing Unitarian Universalism, we need your support to keep doing so. Whether you can afford a few dollars at the end of the year or a few dollars a month, we appreciate your support.